This Conscious Body Exercise has been designed to help you become aware of how our physical bodies are deeply connected to our psychology (emotions, thinking, beliefs, responses, attributes).
I begin by explaining more about this connection. I then describe an exercise to perform a body scan which will determine what is calling for attention in your body. This is followed by a description of likely consciousness/psychology issues that are related to the physical imbalance you notice. I have only focussed on organs, endocrine glands and body parts often impacted in chronic fatigue and adrenal fatigue.
I would advise not performing the body scan exercise if driving or performing any tasks that require concentration to keep you safe! You can still, however, listen to the information and then perform the exercise at home and use the transcript to look up the different areas and what they relate to psychologically.
The more you tune in and listen to imbalance the more you will become conscious of how to address the factors that are causing your exhaustion and you will create a relationship of trust with your body so it can heal itself with your help.
You can also make use of BodyTalk treatments to learn what is out of balance and to have that balance treated. Keep reading my emails to find out more about my BodyTalk offer.
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Our bodies and physical symptoms are just mirrors of our thoughts and perceptions. The body is a mirror of the story we tell ourselves about ourselves, the world and other people. Thoughts and emotions are energy and the body is energy. The biochemistry in every single cell is affected by our emotional state and our emotional state is affected by our thoughts.
We become so stuck in patterns of seeing the world and ourselves and ways of being that our bodies become trapped in a way of being as well. Often this is out of alignment with our optimal blueprint for health and wellbeing. Our bodies are designed to come back into balance and to align with that optimal energetic blueprint with which we were born.
Sometimes it does this effortlessly and we have no idea it is happening but simply take our health for granted. Other times, our bodies will talk to us by manifesting physical symptoms that tell us that there is imbalance in the way we are being and feeling and responding in the world. If we can work with our bodies to create the environment it needs to heal then it will do that (especially rest, food, the people we spend time with). Sometimes we listen and help the body by meeting our needs and letting it do its job.
Many times, we just ignore what our body is saying or suppress the symptoms with medications. The body will try to naturally come back into balance but we are essentially standing in the way of that happening by adding the wrong foods, too much stress, or being in an environment that does not feed us. Then the same messages come up again in the form of the same symptoms. Sometimes our bodies really need to shout at us to get our attention. Chronic illness happens when our bodies start shouting at us to get our attention.
Unfortunately, we are so used to searching ‘out there’ for a cure and we often don’t know how else to heal ourselves or realise that we have the capacity to heal ourselves.
If you learn to tune in to your body your body will tell you what you need.
Very often the imbalance we experience in life will be represented by coinciding imbalance within parts of the body e.g. if we battle to hear the truth we may develop ear problems or if we battle to express our truth in the world there could be thyroid or throat issues.
Sometimes the part of the body affected is related to the frequency of the energy that is attracted to that body part e.g. the frequency of anger is similar to the frequency of the liver so anger is often generated in and stored in the liver.
Sometimes the imbalance we experience in life will affect a certain body part because that body part has a physiological role that aligns with the imbalance e.g. the lungs are related to release and holding (the breath) so if we are afraid to breath in life we may have issues related to our capacity to breath fully and the optimal functioning of the lungs and production of energy.
When we know what the physical symptoms are telling us we can look at what needs to be balanced in our lives in general.
Firstly, learn to tune into your body and start to notice where you are holding tension or discomfort or where you regularly experience symptoms of some sort.
Secondly, match the specific body part, endocrine gland or organ that feels out of balance to the areas of emotional and psychological imbalance I share with you below. See if these are factors that require focus in your life.
Thirdly, acknowledge the body and mind connection, thank your body and make a commitment to stay tuned in regularly and to listen to when the physical imbalance and corresponding psychological imbalance needs some attention.
Simply by becoming aware of the area where you hold imbalance you will already start the process of enabling balance to be created. Consciousness creates space for change rather than staying stuck in unconsciousness.
I will now guide you through the exercise to scan your body and become aware of any possible areas of physical imbalance. I have only focussed on the physical parts of the body that are usually out of balance when chronic fatigue is present. Louise Hay provides an amazing list of potential psychological/mental imbalance as related to physical symptoms in her book “You Can Heal Your Life”.
So let’s begin: Start by taking some deep breaths in and out. Follow the path of your breath with your awareness and bring the breath right down into the base of your spine/into your pelvis. Ground yourself with your breath. Imagine that you are breathing in relaxation, ease and calm and feel it filling every cell in your body and every space between those cells. Then focus on the outbreath. Breathe out with your mouth slightly open and jaw relaxed. The outbreath is about releasing and letting go. Feel the tension being released as you let go of your to-do list, your expectations, your worries. Feel how your body softens even further and allow yourself to be supported by the floor, bed or chair that is supporting you. Now take your awareness to the top of your head and start to scan your body from the top of your head all the way down to your feet. Take your time and notice any areas of tension, discomfort, pain, or anything that just sticks out for you and is trying to grab your attention. Just notice without a need to judge.
Now, having noticed areas of physical imbalance consider the consciousness/psychology of each body part and see if any of these could be an area for focus in your life:
Head: The head represents the intellect and our representation of ourselves in the world. Over-identification with our thoughts and intellect can cause pressure or pain in the head or other head-related issues. Also, being out of touch with our heart and gut brains with overemphasis on the head brain often creates symptoms related to the head.
Throat/thyroid: the throat and thyroid gland is related to the expression of self and needs, communication in general, and possibly feeling suffocated or stifled in life. When there is imbalance in the throat any of these could be requiring focus in your life.
Neck and spine: the neck and spine is related to feeling supported by life or others, being centred in life, flexibility & rigidity (e.g. arthritis), stability, and protection. Back and neck pain and misalignment in the spine can be created by imbalance in any of those areas of your life.
Shoulders: Many people with chronic fatigue have shoulders that seem to be up around their ears all the time (hunched up and over the heart space and protecting the lungs below). Shoulders represent protection (of the heart in particular), shouldering burdens and responsibilities, armouring to life, and are linked to the perception of one’s capacity to cope/have strength.
Lungs: The lungs are physiologically and energetically related to energy distribution and the production of vitality; acceptance & surrender (outbreath); control, holding on and unable to let go and grow (holding the inbreath or shallow breathing); reactiveness (easily startled); protection (the lungs generate Qi to provide a layer of electromagnetic protection around the body); and they generate grief to help us release attachments. The primary job of the lungs is to allow us to breathe in and accept life and surrender our attachments to people and life situations so that we can grow and move on through our transformations.
Heart: The heart is very related to protection. Heart energy is very powerful and when fully expanded protects us, but we often have closed hearts as we defend ourselves against perceived hurt. Heart imbalance can be due to lack of awareness of the world and our truth (a disconnect). This connection to self/world is linked to acceptance, self-love, love of others, respect, depression and joy, peace and harmony and a sense of balance. Difficulties in any of these areas can be associated with heart imbalance.
Thymus gland: The thymus is linked to the immune system and plays a part in defending against pathogens and preventing auto-immune disorder. When we are overly defensive and reactive there can be a, parallel, overly defensive pattern within the physiological functioning of the thymus. This can result in autoimmune disorder (attacking the self). Thymus is very linked to the heart because of the positioning above the heart. So when we are not accepting of ourselves and attack ourselves this is often linked to thymus dysfunction and autoimmune disorders. This self-attack is the inner critic that is so present in many of us.
Digestive system: The digestive system is generally related to our ability to digest life, process life and take out the nourishment while releasing what is not needed or toxic. This can include issues with nurturing and nourishment (fear of receiving nurturing/love is often linked to difficulty assimilating the goodness from food and resultant malnutrition).
We can actually divide the digestive system into the stomach, small intestine, large intestine and anus. Some of the common emotional and psychological traits and concerns that are related to imbalance in the digestive system include:
Liver: Physiologically the liver synthesises nutrients from nutriment in our large intestines. It also manages blood sugar and stores reserves for future needs. So, this is related to the psychological aspects of processing our life and synthesising wisdom from experiences, organising our lives and planning out days.
Many people with chronic fatigue are big planners and organisers but to an extreme that does not allow for flexibility and flow and this can be linked to liver, as well as, kidney and adrenal imbalance.
The liver governs Qi/prana (created by lungs) which surrounds us and protects us as Wei Qi. Liver imbalance can be related to the Wei Qi being overly ‘thick’ when we are very fearful, resulting in being extremely guarded or even shut down; or the Wei Qi could be too depleted so that our boundaries are often violated and we can become easily depleted ourselves. The liver generates anger to alert us to take action to protect ourselves when our boundaries have been invaded. Too many of us with chronic fatigue suppress this anger and often allow our boundaries to be violated as we are people pleasers or we disconnected from our personal needs long ago.
The liver stores all the wisdom that is synthesised from life experiences to guide us to meet our soul’s purpose. When we are afraid to digest life and synthesise the wisdom we cannot grow and evolve, and we stay stuck. Our stored and stuck anger and other emotions can also prevent this movement. Any feeling of being stuck in life is often related to liver imbalance. Whenever the liver is out of balance we cannot detox well, which is a big problem for most people with chronic fatigue. Waking up between 1am and 3am in the morning is also often a sign of liver imbalance. Blood sugar issues is another symptom of liver imbalance.
Kidneys and adrenals go hand in hand. Kidneys are Yin (feminine energy) and adrenals are Yang (masculine energy). This balance is important, but we all tend to over-emphasise the masculine qualities (drive, control, logic, motivation, separation) resulting in adrenal imbalance with associated kidney deficiency.
Kidneys filter the blood to eliminate waste products and retain essential nutrients that need to go back to the body– they are therefore linked to ability to separate pure and impure in our lives and strengthens the lifeforce by generating the will to live. This is very useful but excess willpower is not good for us.
Kidneys are linked to fear. Have you noticed that we tend to urinate more when we are afraid especially when we get a big fright? We need to generate fear to keep us out of danger but too much fear links to the need to control and exercise extreme willpower as a result of fear. So when we overemphasise self-reliance, independence, capability and responsibly the kidneys will often be out of balance.
The kidneys are also linked to sensuality
Adrenals produce hormones to deal with stress – to prepare us for action/give us strength or to regulate blood sugar so we can have more energy or to reduce inflammation and other processes. So the adrenals are linked to the psychology of drive, motivation, survival, coping, strength and willpower. Because the adrenals are very linked to survival (associated with the base chakra) when we do feel supported our tendency towards being driven is moderated. However, when we do not feel supported in life we go into overwhelm and fear and then our drive, motivation and willpower plays out as coping mechanisms to provide an illusionary sense of being in control and coping with the perceived threat. This leads to burnout when it is not balanced.
The kidneys generate the life force and healthy fear to keep us alert to danger but when we are overly focussed on survival and coping due to overwhelm the adrenals and the masculine qualities of the adrenals go into overdrive. The feminine qualities of the Kidneys (intuition, creativity, connection, emotions); the healthy fear; and the generation of life force is out of balance too. Paranoia and obsession are also linked to adrenal imbalance (panic attacks can occur).
Pancreas: Blood sugar is a big issue for most people with adrenal fatigue. The pancreas produces hormones that regulate blood sugar and other hormones and also produces digestive juices and enzymes. As soon as we smell our food and then start to chew it the pancreas adapts so that the right digestive cocktail is produced and blood sugar levels are regulated. Our ability to adapt to life circumstances is linked to the pancreas’s ability to adapt to the what we digest.
When we have issues around our ability to receive abundance, goodness and sweetness in life (don’t trust it or feel undeserving etc) then there will be imbalance in the pancreas (difficulty receiving nourishment and nutrition).
Finally, when the pancreas is weak our thinking becomes excessive and unproductive (worry).
Lower back/pelvis is linked to the root chakra, foundations and sense of being supported by life. Most people with adrenal fatigue do not feel supported and there is often imbalance, tightness and pain in the pelvis, hips and lower back. This is also linked to the ability to be flexible which is often compromised by people who are afraid as they tend to hold very tightly onto control. There is also often an associated tension in the shoulders as the hips and shoulders are connected and need to be in balance.
So now you have an awareness of how our bodies can be impacted by our emotions and psychology and see it is impossible to separate the body and mind. Also, you remember that the body is a system and each part is needing to depend on the rest of the system in many ways.
Take some time now to acknowledge your body and the incredible body and mind connection you have at your disposal to use for your benefit through being connected and listening. Simply share a sense of gratitude with every cell in your body and imagine all those cells deeply absorbing a sense of being nourished, acknowledged and recognised. This may be difficult if you have been at war with your body for a while but the more you do this practice the more your ability to heal will improve. Thank your body for talking to you.
Your body is very adaptable, just as you are. Help your body by becoming aware of your thoughts, beliefs, stories and expectations that shape the emotional and energetic bath that your cells bathe in and receive their messages from.
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